Bachelor in Paradise, Week One - We need to talk about After Paradise

So we're off and running on Bachelor in Paradise.  It's pretty fantastic....in fact, it almost always seems to rejuvenate my love-hate relationship with this franchise after slogging through the regular shows, which always seem about three episodes too long.  It always seems like the more serious the relationships become on the Bachelor/ette, the less interesting they get.  However, there's no marriage /commitment pressure in Paradise, so people are more willing to be flippant with their affection, and it makes for some great "eh...he'll do" hookups.  Likewise, with a more equal distribution of the sexes, there's more opportunities for sparks to fly.  Nothing's better than the "I really hit it off with this dude, he's AMAZING, and I think he feels the same about me!" followed by some new floozy coming in with a date card and taking Mr. Perfect out to a sexy salsa dancing class.  The heat, humidity, hormones and hooch (the 4 H's of good summer TV) all combine for some truly epic meltdowns.

I'm not going to go into a long breakdown of the episodes, but let's do a power rankings of the competitors:

Ashley I: Unquestioned star of the show.  Refers to anyone over 30 as an "old lady," actually said the sentence "I could give a crap about Cinderella, Jasmine is MY princess!", and when feeling her relationship with Jared was threatened says she needs to "get drunk and claim my steak."  Methinks she might've already been drunk.

Claim it!

Mikey T: Call him a meathead, call him a beefheart, call him Jersey Shore, whatever you call him, he's hilarious.  He referred to himself as the Alpha Male, despite the fact that he takes almost no steps to establish dominance over anyone, in fact at one point giving Tenley advice on how to get another man to notice her.  Once he set his sights on Lauren, his first thought is to take his shirt off.  However, he can't just simply take his shirt off - he has to ANNOUNCE that he's taking his shirt off to make sure everyone gets a good look.  Furthermore, I don't know that there's any time a man should be shirtless while wearing slacks/khakis regardless of his physique.  Jeans are a bit of a gray area for me, I'll need some sort of ruling from someone who is physically attracted to men.  But really he takes the second spot for his performance on the date with Clare, when he said his favorite position was  the "Downward Clare" and then lets everyone at home know that he really wants to have sex with her in that position.  Such a classy individual.  Even better, after Clare lets him know that she's there to "explore every opportunity" and hasn't had a chance to talk to some of the guys yet, Mikey responds with "I really want to kiss you right now."  I don't think he heard a single word she said.  It's like his brain only processes visual stimulation.  I love this guy.

Kirk/Carley: Goddamnit, I actually like these two.  They act like normal people.  Teasing each other about their quirks, awkwardly trying to figure out the right time to kiss, and making fun of the other people there.  I hope they make it.

Jared:  Ashley I., Tenley, Clare......really?  How is this guy the "it" guy this season?  He's not particularly funny, he kind of looks like a rodent (not his fault, but still) and he stubbornly wears facial hair despite the fact that it looks awful on him.  I just don't get it.  He is nice, which is an honest to goodness quality that is desirable in the real world, but typically not catnip for desperate women on a reality show.  

Lauren I: pains me to include her here, but nobody else really did anything memorable (Ashley "MESA VERDE" S.  got sent to the  ER and even that was pretty boring!) and she was at least interesting, from her opening "I'm the opposite of a virgin" statement, to her confusing "I hate being here attitude" despite there being no real reason for her to have come in the first place, to the almost constant pleasure she derives from tearing apart what little self esteem her older sister has.  

Most Unexpected Moment: Jonathan letting us know he's had a threesome with two sisters, and that it didn't feel nearly as "dirty" as he thought it would, and then letting us know that he's been intimate with a couple of virigins too, and that while they "might require a little more work" they're also fun.   Where the hell did that come from?  Like nothing that happened on Kaitlyn's season led you to believe that this guy was the type of guy to casually brag about his sexual conquests, especially since he got absolutely nowhere with Kaitlyn and has yet to even talk to a girl on the show that I've seen.  I'm tempted to call shenanigans in on his Penthouse confessions.

After Paradise:  THIS WAS AMAZING.  I've never really been into these "after the show" things before...in fact I go out of my way to avoid shows like Talking Dead, but I may have to re-evaluate my stance after watching this.  It was incredible.  The unquestioned star of the show was the lady whose name I  didn't get, but she's essentially a female me who just talks crap about the show and its contestant and someone decided it'd be a good idea to let her say these things to people's faces.  I figured she might be a little tentative and hesitant in her first national TV appearance, but homegirl took her earrings off and got FIERCE.  She made really off color sexual innuendos (the chicken or the egg comment was incredible), she said Jillian had a hairy ass or a penis (or both!), and just basically said the most "OMG" statement she could think off as fast as possible before Harrison could cut her off.  She's definitely that friend that you have that everyone invites to parties, has a ton of followers on Twitter, is super fun to be around, but inevitably gets way too wasted and has to be helped out of the bar and ends up sleeping alone on her own couch every night.  I picture some guy asking her friends about her, and the girlfriends saying "she's amazing!  So funny, smart, sexy....I LOVE HER!" and then when the guy asks to be set up with her, the girlfriends all look at each other and say "yeah......well.......I'm just not sure she's your type......" because she's such a disaster in one on one situations.  It's fascinating television.